3. not addicted to wine, not violent but gentle, peaceable, free from the love of money,
4. managing his own household well, keeping his children under control with all respectfulness.
5. (But if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s community?)
6. He must not be a new believer, or he may become puffed up and fall into the same judgment as the devil.
7. Furthermore, he must have a good reputation with those outside, so that he will not fall into disgrace and the devil’s trap.
8. Servant-leaders likewise must be dignified, not double-speaking, not addicted to much wine, not greedy for dishonest gain.
9. They must keep hold of the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience.
10. Also let them first be tested—then let those who are blameless serve as servant-leaders.
11. Women likewise must be dignified, not backbiting; clear-minded, trustworthy in every respect.