1. Nashim (wives), submit similarly to your own ba'alim (husbands), that even if any anashim lack mishma'at (obedience) to the Dvar Hashem, they may be won without the Dvar through the hitnahagut (conduct) of their nashim,
2. When they see your yirat Shomayim and your midas chasidus (quality of piety).
3. Do not let your adornment be outward, with coiffures and with wearing gold or fine apparel,