1. If you are chosen to preside at a banquet, don't put on airs. Just be like everyone else. Look after the guests before you sit down.
2. After you have performed your duties, you can sit down and enjoy yourself with the others. They will respect you for doing a good job.
3. If you are older than most of the guests, you may talk; that is your right. But you should know what you are talking about and not interrupt the music.
4. If entertainment is being provided, don't keep up a steady conversation; it's the wrong time to show off your wit.
5. Music at a banquet where wine is served is like a ruby set in gold.